If your week was filled with any kind of sadness, disappointment, discouragement, feelings of being overwhelmed or stressed out or maybe even broken hearted or alone-
then this is for you!
Above you will see a broken mirror.
That is/was, one of my favorite mirrors. It was an antique mirror that I got for $45 at an antique booth. (and since I know people might want to know, my white vases are from Home Goods and pink towels are from Target..now back to business)...
It was broken accidentally yesterday...and I thought about what I always tell people:
That a broken, shattered mirror shines more light everywhere. Because of all it's broken-ness it may not seem perfect anymore, but now it shines more light, it sparkles more.
This is how we can be too! Don't sit in the middle of all the "broken-ness" of your life and have a pity party in all the sharp and painful, broken pieces! Glue the pieces back together, broken and all! And start to shine like a twinkly disco ball!
Don't allow yourself to believe what the world tells you- that you're not perfect, not good enough, not rich enough, not popular enough, not pretty enough, not thin enough, not old enough, not young enough.
You are perfect just as you are! You have dreams that are only yours- no one else in the world can live them except you. You don't need to call everyone you know and ask for their advice, sometimes that's the worst thing you can do! ha ha ha
You don't need to make sure your life is perfect before you start to follow your dream, start to not care what others think, start to realize that you DON'T NEED SOMEONE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY- You NEED TO BE HAPPY AND THEY CAN JUST ADD EXTRA HAPPINESS! No one wants to date or be with someone that thinks they are miserable unless they are with someone- YOU HAVE TO BE HAPPY BY YOURSELF FIRST!
My grama always said: "You were born without them and were fine!" ha ha hah a
Always remember: You were happy for years as a child and didn't date anyone to be happy! ha ha ha At your core you can be happy....and happiness is truly what attracts everyone! Who's attracted to a miserable, sad person..ha ha ha ha!
So today- you shine! And let your broken-ness, your un-perfect-ness, make you sparkle and shine brighter than all the perfection in the world....
perfect is so last year anyway....
I love you with all the sparkles and twinkles of imperfection,
your kandee mama
I invite you to click on one of these and be transported to a new land"
And then you can always listen to this happy music and make this chocolate cake with me:
18 comments:
I needed to see this today. Thank you!<3
This is exactly what I needed to read today. Thank you so much!
Thank u kandee for everything! Ur absolutely right :)
Thank you so much this made me feel much better :)
You are incredible. Everyone has a guardian angel on earth and you are mine. If you ever feel like you don't make a difference you literally saved my life. From years of illness, my fathers murder when I was 27 in (2007), and sexual abuse, mental abuse and physical abuse, and now I haven't been able to walk for the past year and all the other traumas including a traumatic brain injury, I wanted to give up on life. I know I'm putting it out there for everyone to read but I hope some can relate and know they are not alone. However I started watching your videos and reading your blogs and through that I found hope. You are a Stewart of God and I believe he used you to reach me in the darkness. I never in my life put a person on a pedastool besides my daddy but now you are there. You saved me and I can't thank you enough. I just felt I needed to share this with you. You make me believe again. You make me want to try. You make me want to be alive. You are forever in my heart. May Gid bless you always and thank you again.
You have changed my life im nicer and its all thxs to you <3
Kandee, you are such a special person and have a wonderful soul. I was feeling a little down and I knew by reading your encouraging words I would feel better and it worked! You are an angel and I wish you nothing but love in everything you do!
Thank you, Kandee, for being such a source of light, positive energy, love, and kindness. You will never fully know how much your words and videos mean to everyone. I hope that you get some idea and love back from those of us who are uplifted by you. I pray that you have the strength and inspiration to continue with your videos and posts. They truly do make a difference.
Hi kandee! I posted on instagram about me being bullyed. And this really helps. Thank u. <3
I was recently suicidal and just started therapy for some big mistakes I've made. Its easy to feel alone. Thanks for your inspiration :)
Love it!! Thank you for the advice! Your the best.
I really enjoy how your blogs coincidentally are insync with my days :) Your Grandma is So Correct & thank You for reminding me of my wealth of character :)
You are truly an amazing woman!! Thank you for all your posts! They have certainly been an inspiration. I even cut my shirts now....it's amazing what a pair of scissors can do to a plain shirt. ;)
ur r such an inspiration and u brighten my day with ur words of encouragement .kandee u rock ! <3
I love you Kandee:D
Hi Kandee.
After reading this post i feel alive. It was like if u knew what i was going through and all your positive and love really touched me. Today i say good bye to my heartbroke-nes. No more!
Thank you so much Kandee i cant thank you enough for all of your positive posts.
God bless you and yiur family.
Angie- el paso tx
I miss your videos :( Please post up soon !
agree wid u. esp wid "you are perfect just as you are..."
bdw lykd wot ur gramma sez.. ur blog is perfct cz its nt limtd 2 a specific. u kp on inspirin ur readers...
kp up d gud work n God bles..xx
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